Comments on: ON HOW A LITTLE FISTING CAN TRANSFORM AN ORDINARY SEXDATE INTO A LIFE-CHANGING EXPERIENCE

By: Bull

Bull — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 04:06:41 +0000

Dear epic,
Thanks for that eloquent response. I have a feeling I’m going to live a lot longer than you because of my narrow mind and ass. Have loads of fun with your unruly anus and multiple STDs.

By: epic

epic — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 00:13:54 +0000

dear bull stfu…your mind and ass is too narrow

By: Bull

Bull — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 23:10:16 +0000

The nonchalant manner in which you deal with infidelity is frightening and sad in my opinion. Maybe I’m just too sensitive or too naive but I had a hard time focusing on the rest of the article after reading about your rushed attempt to have sex before the arrival of his boyfriend. I’m not against open relationships but unabashed dishonesty and betrayal is something I cannot buy into. That’s not exciting to someone like me, in fact, it’s actually kind of heartbreaking. And to those who would say I’m discriminating against my own kind, fuck you. I have every right to express what I think is healthy and unhealthy in a relationship without being labeled as an enemy within. Fucking ridiculous. Whether you be gay or straight, cheating is not indicative of a healthy relationship and there is a big difference between being open and cheating. Sorry.

By: Jay

Jay — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 13:12:12 +0000

Yawn… Most unerotic, uninteresting crap I have ever read… If you want a prolapse then go for it, just don’t pretend you’re an expert and bore anyone else with it.

By: ty

ty — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 23:18:20 +0000

I don’t understand the mindset or selfishness as to want to go to such an extreme to make someone like you, or please your fleeting addiction. I see it as a foil to intimacy, rendering male gays as asundeserving of respect in the eyes of the world.

By: Matthew

Matthew — Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:29:26 +0000

Coincidentally, at 26 I was fisted for the first time this weekend, in a drunken, heat-of-the-moment exchange. It was incredibly hot, so much that I blew without even touching myself; and while nursing my bum a little the next day I had time to consider what about the experience of fisting that I thought would be hot, versus what actually was hot. I’d always thought that the pleasure of fisting would derive from having your ass stretched and filled to capacity, of being able to look down and see someone’s forearm where it shouldn’t really be. I suppose this was a part of it, BUT, the real arousal I found was the feeling of almost having your body keel from side to side, of absolute POWER stuck right up your ass, and as a result having your ENTIRE prostate massaged at the same time. Kindof makes me see a piston engine in new light, and makes fucking seem like stirring sugar in a tea cup.

By: Gerson

Gerson — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:34:28 +0000

ouch

By: Danny

Danny — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:44:23 +0000

Recently this last summer while on sabbatical, I took my time and managed to take my hand to wrist. It was not about pain, but more about deep relaxation. Quite zen and now one of my favorite things. I can’t wait to share it with the man I love when he comes along. Thanks everyone for sharing, even the ones that are afraid and inside a box. It does show discrimination within the gay community.

By: Terry R

Terry R — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:32:27 +0000

It’s definitely hot–I did it to someone once almost accidentally and it provide and incredible rush.
That said, fistees’ bungholes usually turn into vaginas eventually…but hey no judgment.

However, as Miguel’s last paragraph so aptly illustrates, it’s unfortunate how once guys get into fetish, they tend to shut out anyone who doesn’t fit the bill.

But then I guess that’s what makes it a fetish.

By: Jason Kuno

Jason Kuno — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 18:58:28 +0000

To Mikiki who wanted to wait till 40 to take a fist: The older you get the harder it is to break into (fisting), when you are young, you are more flexible, many teens and early 20 somethings can take a forearm or double fist much easier than I or people that start later, I’m 32 but only got into it a few years ago, but I remember when I was 16 I could almost stick my whole hand in my ass.

By: Greg

Greg — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:10:03 +0000

It’s amazing this guy can fit a fist up his asshole, considering that his head is up there as well.

By: Rui

Rui — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 11:19:27 +0000

“Why do people even pretend… That’s not a relationship. No wonder people look down on us…”

oh brother. who died and made you king of what is and isn’t a relationship. open relationships happen, and some even work well. just because it doesn’t fit in with your particular definition of relationship, doesn’t make it any less valid.

By: Mikiki

Mikiki — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:24:00 +0000

first of all: Hey Jay, STFU you fucking bourgeois faggot. you’re the reason people look down on us, not a slutty fag who owns his shit. Jesus. Don’t you fucking dare tell someone who has a relationship structure you don’t get, or aren’t into, that their’s isn’t a relationship. Or my boyfriend’s husband will make you shit your teeth.
I’ll be busy fisting my boyfriend. His husband. The man I’m in a relationship with.
Anyway, I agree with Nico, partially because I’m his friend and I like what he has to say but also because I have a fisting btm boyfriend (see above) and it blows my mind what he’s able to take (my fist, often first thing in the morning). I have yet to take a fist though I’m sure it wouldn’t be much of a stretch as I’m pretty slutty. It’s something I’m saving, as a sexual activity/experience until my 40th birthday (I’m 31 now) so that I’ll have something to look forward to, as I’m already one hella jaded queen.

By: Evji108

Evji108 — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 04:34:53 +0000

So suddenly this dude discovers fisting and with the zeal of the newly-converted he feels angry that he feels discriminated against for his more extreme tastes in sex, but he immediately discriminates against those who do not like to fist-fuck using his “foolproof, fun, effective system”. I wish he and his asshole all the best and lots of elasticity, as long as that lasts.

By: dudella

dudella — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:30:11 +0000

Seems to be a bit of a leap from “fisting this guy was really hot” to “suddenly i loved taking fists up my ass.” Speaking from experience, being a fisting top is a very different experience than being a fisting bottom. I don’t know about the “immoral” and “dirty” labels, but fisting IS extreme. Own it.

By: bob smith

bob smith — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:10:50 +0000

his sphincter was not fighting fruitlessly

By: Nico

Nico — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 01:09:21 +0000

This is really well written. The part where you’re talking about how great and talented submissive bottoms are is the best.

By: Bruce in Tampa

Bruce in Tampa — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 23:59:16 +0000

I love this story! I’ve only
bottom fisted twice and I completely fell in love with it

By: Jay

Jay — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 23:29:17 +0000

All this talk of having a boyfriend yet you are half way round the world fisting god knows who who also supposedly has a ‘boyfriend’… Why do people even pretend… That’s not a relationship. No wonder people look down on us…