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BUDDIES

Bar

1986
London, United Kingdom
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A BASHFUL COMPLEX MALE

BUTT: What kind of relationship do you have with your body?

Bar: Let me introduce you to the fraudulence paradox:

The fraudulence paradox was that the more time and effort you put into trying to appear impressive or attractive to other people, the less impressive or attractive you felt inside — you were a fraud. And the more of a fraud you felt like, the harder you tried to convey an impressive or likable image of yourself so that other people wouldn’t find out what a hollow, fraudulent person you really were.
Logically, you would think that the moment you became aware of this paradox, you’d stop being a fraud and just settle for being yourself (whatever that was) because you’d figure out that being a fraud was a vicious infinite regress that ultimately resulted in being frightened, lonely, alienated...

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    DADDYBEARISH  ·  4 years ago  · 

    wow, now that’s an answer we can sink out teeth into… kudos to you…

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    KRISTIAN  ·  5 years ago  · 

    :D

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    LUXXXER  ·  5 years ago  · 

    Compelling answer…

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    STEVE  ·  5 years ago  · 

    supasexy xx

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    MICHAEL  ·  6 years ago  · 

    A sexy, wise man….a saintly devilish position to be in…you wear it well.

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Been off my head busy that ive been ignoring my butt but all is well… thanks
    Great pics, love your choice in underwear and you seem to have a good size kitchen ;-)

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Right back at you!!!

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    ROMAN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    YUM!

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      Yummmmeee yourself…!

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    LOMAX  ·  6 years ago  · 

    H ello bar. How’s the uk?

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    RADEK  ·  6 years ago  · 

    i like it how you grasp this fraudulence idea .

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      dont we all…

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      RADEK  ·  6 years ago

      no, i’m sure not ;)

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    DARIO  ·  6 years ago  · 

    thanks for the good share in tumblr :)

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Like too…!

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    ROBIN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    intrigued..

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    MARTY  ·  6 years ago  · 

    very handsome!

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      I really have to thank my parents; even though i look nothing like them…
      Cheers anyhow mate

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    KENNY  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Nice tumblr

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      Appreciate it mate
      I would say its “nice” too… lol Cheers

      PS Great site and great work… truly!

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Cheers mate…!!! Your’s is funny ;-)

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    NEW PICS ONLINE…!!!

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    STANYMIRE  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Tks for the link Mr Paradox!

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      what link?

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    JUST HAD A MISERABLE MORNING ON EBAY… SPENT HALF THE EARLY EARLY MORNING BIDDING ON A PAIR OF SHORTS – THAT I WON… BUT REALIZED WERE NOT MY SIZE… THEN AGAIN I WAS MULTITASKING ON SKYPE AND BIENG VERY VERY NAUGHTY

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    KRISTIAN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    you are very, very… handsome

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      Thanks again… i have to say it’s got nothing to do with me? I have to thank my parents; even though i look nothing like them

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      thank you and you too!!!

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      KRISTIAN  ·  6 years ago

      how dare you ! it was my line!… :D i love it! it moved!.. or are you creative as me? :)

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      erm…? i think it would depend how you define creativity and creativity in which field etc etc
      Be it better or worse… we’ll have to see somehow?

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    THIAGO  ·  6 years ago  · 

    oh my!

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    I GOT AN EMAIL OFF MOONPIG TODAY: ARE YOU A MUMMY’S BOY?
    NO I AM VERY NOT THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!! I SHALL BE LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR… ARE YOU A DADDY’S BOY? EMAIL

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    JOE  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Good momments. Ive been fraudulant and its a waste of time. Thanks for your words

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    JORDAN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    i think to escape the paradox let go of always being right…

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      Hence the kink… i must be on the right track. Are you?

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      JORDAN  ·  6 years ago

      if my thought is, i must be…

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      to be or no to be…? is where im coming from
      you could probably tell a lot about me just from that

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    GUYS IM A BIT LATE ON THIS ONE
    BUT I JUST DISCOVERED CAM4… FEELS LIKE HOME!

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      MEHMET  ·  6 years ago

      c’mooonn!

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      im slightly addicted…

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      MEHMET  ·  6 years ago

      I blame the guys on cam4

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      no – i take full responsibility; its not there fault, some people are natural born performers. there’s no excuse for logging on and getting my **** out and inviting people over to watch the show, with both our ****s out and doing things to each other, again with our ****s out.
      completely my fault ;-(

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      MEHMET  ·  6 years ago

      Don’t be sad. You’ll find your soulmate on cam4. You can trust them. Love is always in the air when you’re logged in with your dick out…with your dicks* out.

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      Im open to that fairy-tale…. You never know how our happy ending will be scripted- especially in the digital age.
      Hows your fairy-tale going?

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    your too kind…! Grandpas are cool – i like the ones the ones that are still on drugs. Take the compliment because its more than suitable and i guess we can cock twitch together… anyday!

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    CRIMINAL  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Thanx man u r extra hot too >>

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    ALEX  ·  6 years ago  · 

    wow, what an amazing comment I think. Or did you mean that i look like a scary as f’ skin head?

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      no just an intense feeling – somewhat piercing and penetrating

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    BRADLEY  ·  6 years ago  · 

    :-))

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      Forgot to mention hot too mate

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    i know…! Camera shy and no photogenic ;-(

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    What shall i bring then?

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    nice one mate!

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    ANYONE GOING TO THIS…? I THINK I AM
    http://www.meatzine.com/

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    i dont… will a jock strap do?

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Glad to hear your on the mend… Its better to have it all out than keeping it in! You can cry on my shoulder any day providing we get naked after and indulge in other more adventurous watersports than crying

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Whats a splutter dog? was it a friend?

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    CIARAN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    thanks :-) your a stylist, are you?

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Thank you its the look im going for since no one else is doing it… Its different but it does the job and gets me laid

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    why are you crying?

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    MARTIN KORBEN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Interesting theory, the fraudulent paradox — But I’ll need those two extra profile pictures to fully make up my mind about it.

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      its and interesting theory isnt it…im camera shy and non photogenic but can certainly pass you on some pics…

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    SCOTT  ·  6 years ago  · 

    I’m waiting patiently. It’s only a matter of time before that becomes impatiently. *ahem*

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Dont cry…!

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    GREG  ·  6 years ago  · 

    I like the answer, good one.

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    JOSE  ·  6 years ago  · 

    guapo…!!

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    JOHN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    I am the fraudulence paradox …. wanna join me?

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    ALEX  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Hey there – I like the male gender in your pics on your Tumblr site! Will be interesting to see your next shoots. X

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      BAR  ·  6 years ago

      Thanks mate
      It needs updating… i’ve done two more since then just waiting for the post production to be done
      Will let you know anyhow…Thanks again X

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    I guess its different from where you are… but noted and agreed!
    It is my work – i need to update though as its missing two shoots i recently did

    Where can i find your work?

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    SEAN  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Great face!

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    BAR  ·  6 years ago  · 

    LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO KNOWS ABOUT FITNESS AND/OR A PERSONAL TRAINER FOR A WEB BASED PROJECT

    IF INTERESTED PLEASE GET IN TOUCH!
    AND I WILL FORWARD YOU MORE DETAILS VIA EMAIL

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    ANDREW  ·  6 years ago  · 

    Impressive body, nice face!

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    K3LV!N  ·  7 years ago  · 

    Thanks for the accept.
    Nice to meet you :)

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    K3LV!N  ·  7 years ago  · 

    like ur cute lips and damn H-O-T body too.

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    TED  ·  7 years ago  · 

    bam hot

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    ASHLEY  ·  7 years ago  · 

    Damn fine. Nice tattoos too.

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    PETER  ·  7 years ago  · 

    bodies help

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    BAR  ·  7 years ago  · 

    It primitive common sense

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    RICHARD  ·  7 years ago  · 

    handsome man…

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