New York City FAG MAP

New York City FAG MAP

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Tom Jackson
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I’m Tom. I’m a writer in New York City. I’ve lived here for five years. When I first arrived and was looking for work, I made a deal with myself that I would spend the second half of every day exploring the city. I did this for six months and barely scratched the surface. In 2008, my good friend Abi and I started Gayletter, a weekly guide to fun stuff happening in the city. For the BUTT Fag Map, I selected my favorite bars, parties, and places to visit in NYC. It covers a lot, but of course not everything, this grimy city of ours is most fun when you get out there and discover a few things on your own. Enjoy!


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    ENRIQUE  ·  4 weeks ago  · 

    NYC April 30 – May 4th. Looking forward to lay back and enjoy some time in the city. Anyone up for a drink, let me know.

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    MAURO  ·  1 month ago  · 

    In NYC forma 1 week, any good advice or want to join for a beer?

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    DAVID  ·  1 month ago  · 

    will be in nyc for three weeks in april, any tips on what’s hot then?

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    WILLIAM  ·  1 month ago  · 

    Looking for a real New Yorker to show me around as I’m quite new to the stomping grounds

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    JOE  ·  5 months ago  · 

    secret lounge tho

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    CHRISTOPHER  ·  5 months ago  · 

    Don’t forget Julius’

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    NICKY  ·  5 months ago  · 

    Don’t understand how I’ve been living here in NYC for over a year now and I have yet to experienced any kinda NYC gay life.. O_o Maybe I should check these places out sometime.

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    NASSIF  ·  6 months ago  · 

    arriving new york next tuesday (october 1), ill stay there for 21 days,…, so lets have a nice beer and go to a nice spot. ;) will be a pleasure!

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    GIULIO  ·  7 months ago  · 

    Hi everybody, I’m going to be in NY Sep 19 – Oct 5… should anybody fancy meeting for a beer, or coffee, or or or…

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    JEAN  ·  8 months ago  · 

    Butt men, NY Aug 29 – Sep 15. Looking for homes to wreck ^_^

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    HENRY  ·  8 months ago  · 

    I’ll be visiting NYC from August 22 until September 1, should anybody fancy meeting for coffee – or even participating in / co-creating some art together! ( is my art site). Love to hear from you! ;)

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    FEDE  ·  9 months ago  · 

    hey!!! I’m going to NY, which bars do you recommend???

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    JORGE  ·  9 months ago  · 

    Hey sexy boys! I live in New York! If you’re visiting or if you live here, hit me up! Let’s get a drink, coffee or grab lunch! Cheers!

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    ANTONIO  ·  9 months ago  · 

    NYC is the greatest city to live in I have been here since 1985, moved here from Miami, Florida.

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    MARIUS  ·  10 months ago  · 

    Coming to NYC from 19th of June. It would be great to spend good time with some new yorkers or visitors

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    KENJI  ·  10 months ago  · 

    new in nyc… walking in circles… tell me what’s hot in this town, plz! ;)

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    ADAM  ·  10 months ago  · 

    I’m going to NYC this weekend June 6 to June 9. I’d appreciate some recommendations from people!

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    ROLSEM  ·  11 months ago  · 

    I’m going to be in New York the 20-25 and would love for someone to show me a good time. Get to me.

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    GREGORY  ·  11 months ago  · 

    hey new yorkers! I’m looking for a place to stay from 20 until 30 of May. Anyone has some tips of nice hostels or knows who has an avaiable room? If any of you want to go out for a beer or want join me in the discovery of the city, will be very welcome! send me a message, thanks, Greg.

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    GERMáN  ·  11 months ago  · 

    Going to NY in June. Who wants to give me a gay tour?

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    ANDREW  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Mmm. In town for a week. Hit me up and show me a good time…

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    CLIFF  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Moving to NYC at the end of May. Drinks?

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    DIEGO ALBERTO  ·  1 year ago  · 

    coming to NYC for the first taim everrr !!! kabooom. here we go.

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    NATE  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Will be in NYC Feb 22nd – looking for a fun place to two to hang out.

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    MAURICIO  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Ty’s Bar (West Village) & Nowhere Bar (East Village) missing here!!!

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    AMRI  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Hey coming to NYC this 4th of feb, anyone to hangout with?

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    TOMMY  ·  1 year ago  · 

    So The Urge no longer has go go boys? Where do I go for my go go boy fix?

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    SERGEY  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Hey guys, PLS suggest WHERE to go on NYE in NYC?

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    ZEPHAN  ·  1 year ago  · 

    just moved here. someone drop me a line!

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    ALEXANDER  ·  1 year ago  · 

    where can i go to find someone to fuck or fuck me?

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        MAURICIO  ·  1 year ago

        the COCK on 2nd street & 2nd ave, specially fridays, WILD WILD BOYS!

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    RHYS  ·  1 year ago  · 

    i would also like to point out The Woods.

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    ROB  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Definitely go to Printed Matter for all your two dimensional needs! Great place!

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    SAšA  ·  1 year ago  · 

    This is great! I´m moving to NYC in january and I will be there for 3 months… Looking for guys to hang out with so drop me a mess and lets get together! I´m easy going and love meeting new people!

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        MARCUS  ·  1 year ago

        Welcome to NYC !

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        MAURICIO  ·  1 year ago

        NYC BOY

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    TULLIO  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Hi guys, will be in NY in two weeks, does anyone want to hang out?

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    SHAWN  ·  1 year ago  · 

    Something to do in NY ,two word response “Fire Island” nuff said

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    STEPHEN  ·  1 year ago  · 

    The “old cock” was the wildest thing going………I miss my NYC! And I need to check out Julius again. Don ‘t forget Rawhide on 8 th ave and 21st…cheap drinks and hands on strippers

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    BRAD  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Moving to NYC in a week…looking for some friends.

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    BENY  ·  2 years ago  · 

    What is there to do in NYC for the day? Suggestions are awesome.

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    ANGELO  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Hey Guys, I’ll be in NYC March 12- 30 and want to meet some hot masculine bottoms for fun sex and more

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    FELIPE  ·  2 years ago  · 

    I will arrive Feb. 15, anyone else?

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    KENT  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Checking it out in March. Any juicy tips on what’s hot then?

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    ALE  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Arriving there on sunday! Open to suggestions and friends !!

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    SEAN  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Hullo! In new york now! Any suggestions for this time of e year? We’re a gay married couple who are kinda geeky on not into the cruising scene at all. Just a good drink,and laugh and all that!

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    SPENCER  ·  2 years ago  · 

    any ideas for decent new years parties/venues?

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    TIM  ·  2 years ago  · 

    great spot

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    GERMAN  ·  2 years ago  · 

    When will this year Halloween party will be held?

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    DAVID  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Next question- any galleries that focus on gay art in NYC?

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    DAVID  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Hey NYC does any body have any party suggestions for the week?

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    DAMIAN  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Thanks for mentioning Buddies, Adam. Of course, as the host/DJ, I am biased, but I think Tuesdays are better than Mondays at Nowhere, if for no other reason than you can actually get laid at Buddies. For free. Well, maybe you’ll have to pay for a few drinks, or the cabfare back to his place, but not for the sex.

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    WILLIAM  ·  2 years ago  · 

    I’ll be in Midtown West in October.

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    SIGA  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Any recommendations for Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday nights?

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    ANTOINE  ·  2 years ago  · 

    As many of the BUTTs are artists, i think it would really be helpful to list on this page some underground/indie/awkward music, and art places to be absolutely seen.
    After all, the gay life is not the only one that can be done in NY !

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    RICH  ·  2 years ago  · 

    I’m in New York in 3 weeks :)

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    SEVEN  ·  2 years ago  · 

    wish a trip to NYC..

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    ERIC  ·  2 years ago  · 

    Tis true. The Beige party no longer exists.

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    GEORGE  ·  2 years ago  · 

    hi locals … is it true that beige @ B-bar is no more?!

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    PEEWEE NYOB  ·  3 years ago  · 

    and let’s not forget the garden Le Petit Versailles!!

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    AA BRONSON  ·  3 years ago  · 

    @ Adam… it’s not too late to add it! @ Max… yes, you should have!

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    MAX  ·  3 years ago  · 

    I should’ve shown my bum when I was there ; )

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    ADAM BARAN  ·  3 years ago  · 

    Sorry AA, I do indeed recommend PM to all NYC visitors, in fact personally, I always tell people to go there!

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    AA BRONSON  ·  3 years ago  · 

    I can’t believe you don’t have Printed Matter listed, your number one source for artsy fagzines.


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