Peter in New Orleans (you may have noticed his ear and armpit in last weekend’s BUTT calendar pages) is quite generous with his butt. He’s more than happy to share it — and the rest of himself — with his two boyfriends-slash-husbears John and Richard, who recently celebrated seventeen years together by the way.

Have you found yourself, either on purpose or completely by accident, in a thruple? Please send dos and don’ts, tips and tricks for making it work for BUTT’s polyamory compendium at